HOUSTON – As court cases targeting major social media platforms move forward across the country, many parents are asking the same question: Who is responsible for keeping children safe online?
While judges weigh the legal responsibility of tech companies, mental health experts say families should not wait for the outcome of those cases before taking action at home.
The national debate over social media safety has intensified in recent months. Several high-profile lawsuits are examining whether social media algorithms — designed to keep users engaged — may also contribute to anxiety, depression, and other mental health concerns among children and teenagers.
At the center of many of these legal battles is Section 230, a federal law that largely shields technology companies from liability for content posted by users on their platforms.
But while the legal system works through those questions, families continue to face the day-to-day realities of raising children in an increasingly digital world.
Experts warn parents about a growing list of online dangers, including harmful content, viral challenges, cyberbullying, online predators, and the mental health impact of excessive screen time.
For many families, the biggest question is how to respond.
Mental health professionals say the answer starts with open and honest communication — not punishment.
“So it’s about being nonjudgmental,” said Katie Harlan, a psychotherapist with the Joan and Stanford Alexander Jewish Family Service. “Not coming in as if your teen or child is engaging in those things, but letting them know these are the real risks.”
Harlan says it’s critical that children feel safe talking to parents if they encounter inappropriate content or suspicious behavior online.
“They should never be in trouble for coming to you if they view something inappropriate online or if someone reaches out to them,” Harlan said. “You really want them to feel comfortable coming to you if there is a concern.”
Experts also recommend:
- Setting clear screen-time boundaries
- Keeping devices out of bedrooms overnight
- Using parental controls
- Staying informed about the apps children are using
Parents are also encouraged to watch for warning signs that may signal a problem, including:
- Sudden mood changes
- Withdrawal from family and friends
- Secretive online behavior
- Extreme emotional reactions after using social media
Experts say the goal is not for parents to feel overwhelmed, but to stay engaged and involved.
While the courts may eventually decide how much responsibility social media companies bear, experts stress that the most important conversations about online safety are still happening at home.