Houston – The holidays are meant to be joyful, but for many families they can quickly become overwhelming. Between packed calendars, work deadlines, family expectations, and endless to do lists, it often feels like the season is running us instead of the other way around.
Houston-based author and speaker Carol Enneking says that pressure is something she sees every year, especially among parents and high achievers. With decades of experience in corporate leadership and consulting, she reminds people that balance is not always realistic during the holidays. Instead, she encourages families to focus on rebalancing in real time.
One of her go to strategies is simple but powerful: pause, pivot, and proceed. When plans fall apart, whether it is a delayed flight, a burnt pie, or a forgotten gift, taking a moment to pause can help reset expectations. From there, pivoting allows you to adjust without spiraling, and proceeding helps you move forward with intention instead of stress.
Carol also encourages parents to rethink the pressure of being the holiday magic maker. While many feel responsible for creating perfect moments for everyone else, she says it is just as important to experience the magic yourself. Being present and letting go of perfection can make the season feel lighter and more meaningful.
Another key reminder is to protect your peace. Saying yes to every invitation can quickly lead to exhaustion. Carol suggests asking yourself whether a commitment aligns with your energy and whether the decision is coming from joy or guilt.
During the season of giving, she also encourages families to rethink giving. Generosity should not come at the cost of burnout. Sometimes the most meaningful gifts are your time, patience, or a simple boundary.
Carol’s message is a reminder that the holidays do not have to be perfect to be peaceful. By rebalancing along the way, families can create a season that feels as good as it looks.