HOUSTON – With holiday parties in full swing, you may have some questions about proper etiquette, when it comes to gifting at Christmas parties and family gatherings. We called in experts Monica and Darian Lewis from the Monica Lewis School of Etiquette to answer some questions that may help you before your next function.
If you’re contemplating bringing a gift for the host of a holiday party you’re attending, Monica says YES, always gift them. “It’s a sign of appreciation for the invite and hospitality you’re going to receive,” she says. A good gift to bring could be a candle, or a bottle of wine. It doesn’t have to be expensive! It can be a small token, but something you know they will enjoy.
When it comes to wines and spirits, if you bring a bottle and no one drinks it, proper etiquette would be to leave it for the host! Darien says, “leave it for the host, you brought it as a gift.”
Next up for the newlyweds or any couples out there, if you’re debating on bringing a gift for your in-laws, you should ALWAYS bring a little somethin’ somethin’! It’s a good first impression! You can find out from your partner what that family member likes, and buy a gift based on their taste! But again, just like the hostess gift, it doesn’t have to be expensive!
And if you’re one of those peeps who are booked and busy this season, but receive a holiday party invitation, it’s best you decline in a kind way, while keeping in mind that you should RSVP yes or no in a timely manner.
Watch the video above to get all the information you need before your next holiday party! To access Monica and Darien’s information, PLUS their upcoming holiday manners class, visit the “Seen on Houston Life” section.