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Thomas Rhett & Lauren Akins Are Teaching Daughters to 'Lead With Love In the Face of Hate'

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Thomas Rhett and Lauren Akins are speaking out about their dedication to the fight against racial injustice in the name of their daughter, Willa.

The proud parents shared a pair of posts to Instagram on Sunday opening up about their commitment to making change and creating a better world for their little girl. Akins penned a moving message about loving and caring for her daughter -- whom she and Rhett adopted from Uganda in 2017.

"I have been nervous to post anything in the past and even now because of how some people believe that I as a white mother am undeserving or incapable of raising a black daughter," Akins wrote. "I believe that shaming comes from people who choose to see only my white skin and her brown skin and refuse to see our hearts and love for each other."

Despite her trepidation to share her heart on social media, Akins said she wants Willa "to be VERY sure that I am HER mother who stands up not only for her, but for every single person who shares her beautiful brown skin."

"I want to be her mother who raises her to know what it means to have brown skin and to be proud of it," she wrote, in part. "Because the truth is: I AM HER mother who FIGHTS for her. I am her mother who celebrates not only WHO she and her two sisters are, but WHOSE they are and exactly who God created them to be."

Akins went on to address the incidents of racial injustice that have sparked protests across the nation, including the killing of George Floyd in Minneapolis, Minnesota, and said she felt that it would be "disobedient to God if I don’t speak up against injustice and fight for change."

"I believe if I stay silent I am betraying my daughter. I believe if I stay silent I am betraying the heart of God. Don’t stay silent. Fight. Use the most powerful weapon of all: love," she continued. "Together, let’s be an army for love. That means speaking up loudly for injustices whether or not we share the same skin color, language, beliefs...the list goes on."

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I have been nervous to post anything in the past and even now because of how some people believe that I as a white mother am undeserving or incapable of raising a black daughter. I believe that shaming comes from people who choose to see only my white skin and her brown skin and refuse to see our hearts and love for each other. That shaming has created such anxiety in me that I am afraid to share my heart on social media. But as her mother, I want her to be VERY sure that I am HER mother who stands up not only for her, but for every single person who shares her beautiful brown skin. I want to be her mother who raises her to know what it means to have brown skin and to be proud of it. I want to be her mother who doesn’t listen to the shaming of skin colors but instead listens to the Spirit of God who knitted every skin color together in their mother’s womb for His glory. Because the truth is: I AM HER mother who FIGHTS for her. I am her mother who celebrates not only WHO she and her two sisters are, but WHOSE they are and exactly who God created them to be. It’s hard for me to sort out what it is I want to say to her, and what it is I want to say to the rest of the world. I do think there are parts of my heart that can be shared with the world publicly, but then there are parts of my heart that should be kept here at home just for her and all of my children. However, I do believe I’m being disobedient to God if I don’t speak up against injustice and fight for change. I believe if I stay silent I am betraying my brothers and sisters. I believe if I stay silent I am betraying my daughter. I believe if I stay silent I am betraying the heart of God. Don’t stay silent. Fight. Use the most powerful weapon of all: love. Look to the One who created that weapon and follow His lead. Together, let’s be an army for love. That means speaking up loudly for injustices whether or not we share the same skin color, language, beliefs...the list goes on. I want my children to cling to the good. Love, peace, kindness, joy. I want them to BE the good. Injustice is evil. It breaks the heart of God. I pray He breaks every one of our hearts over this injustice until He returns.

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Rhett -- who also shares 2-year-old daughter Ada and 3-month-old daughter Lennon with Akins -- also shared a heartfelt post in which he admitted that "as the father of a black daughter and also two white daughters" he has "struggled" with how to address this climate and the situation and what to say. 

"We have navigated forms of racism directly and while there is mostly overwhelming support and love for our family, sometimes there is just the opposite," the country crooner wrote in a message posted to Instagram on Sunday. "Because of that fear, it can be a lot easier to choose silence, but today I’m choosing to speak."

"I have no clue what it feels like to be profiled by authorities, treated negatively or have my life threatened because of the color of my skin," Rhett continued. "When I witnessed the horrific murder of George and think about the mistreatment of other black men and women in America, I am heartbroken and angry."

"What happened to George was pure hate. We are all created by the same God. I pray for a change in heart of those hearts who have been overcome by hatred and hardened," he wrote. "I pray for a deeper understanding for myself and awareness of the experience of mistreatment that those of another skin color go through."

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As the father of a black daughter and also two white daughters- I have struggled with what to say today. We have navigated forms of racism directly and while there is mostly overwhelming support and love for our family, sometimes there is just the opposite. Because of that fear, it can be a lot easier to choose silence, but today I’m choosing to speak. I have no clue what it feels like to be profiled by authorities, treated negatively or have my life threatened because of the color of my skin. When I witnessed the horrific murder of George and think about the mistreatment of other black men and women in America, I am heartbroken and angry. I get scared when I think about my daughters and what kind of world they will be growing up in and how my JOB as a father is to show them how to lead with love in the face of hate. To know their worth and value as not only women but human beings. I have witnessed my black band and crew members on the road struggle at times with feeling safe because of the color of their skin. This is unacceptable. I don’t believe in hate. I believe in love. What happened to George was pure hate. We are all created by the same God. I pray for a change in heart of those hearts who have been overcome by hatred and hardened. I pray for a deeper understanding for myself and awareness of the experience of mistreatment that those of another skin color go through. I pray for the families of those who have lost their lives to violence or experienced trauma at the hand of racial oppression and injustice. What can we do? I ask myself this question everyday. We each have to be part of the solution and we have to continue to educate ourselves, continue to support both financially and with service those organizations doing good work in our communities to overcome injustice and hatred in our country. And if you’re like me, continue to pray. So if there is any question on where I stand let me be clear- I stand with you, I stand with George and his family and all those who have faced racism. I stand with my wife and my daughters. We will be fighting this fight for the rest of our lives. Rest In Peace, George. We are not letting this go.

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Rhett went on to say that he is scared for his daughters and the "kind of world they will be growing up in."

"It's my JOB as a father is to show them how to lead with love in the face of hate. To know their worth and value as not only women but human beings."

"So if there is any question on where I stand let me be clear- I stand with you, I stand with George and his family and all those who have faced racism. I stand with my wife and my daughters. We will be fighting this fight for the rest of our lives," Rhett concluded. "Rest In Peace, George. We are not letting this go."

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