7. Hit the Internet and go surfing

"What you need to do is find other websites out there that you connect with and then you leave comments on their site. Don't leave comments saying, 'Come and check out my site,' but write genuine comments about things you are interested in. Basically, you will start to develop relationships with other bloggers and they will then follow you and expose their readers to your website," said Gross.

When leaving comments, be sure to include a link or the web address to your own website.

The big don't

The big no-no in the mommy blog world is strangers asking for favors.

"If you come right out and ask a blogger, 'Hey, I see you reviewed this, can I have the contact to review that?' They are not going to give it you. If you build relationships with other bloggers, they will share information with you or share contacts with you," said Benton.